Gahhhhhhh! No no no! No. If a guy pulls out a knife within a few hours of meeting you and cuts off your panties in the back of a truck on a deserted road after lying to you about your car problems RUN! That is not romantic.
A man in charge is frequently sexy. A dude that won’t tell you his name but tells you you belong to him is a defendant. Jesus H Christ, Creep McGee. Ole boy gave me the booboojeebies. This was the most shudder-inducing male I encountered today, and I spent my morning with a homicide client.